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Mom threatens to make scene if ex attends wedding

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

Q. My second husband, Miguel, and I are divorced, and I am getting married again. Although we never had kids together, he is the only father figure my son from my first marriage has known, and he is also good friends with my fiancé. My son and my fiancé would both like Miguel to attend the wedding. I’m OK with it, but my mother will never forgive how he treated me (he cheated), and she has threatened to make a scene if he attends. What’s good ex-etiquette?A. As the bride, the final guest list is up to you, especially if your son and fiancé are asking to invite this man, who continues to act as a father figure to your son.Plus, it appears your fiancé has cultivated such a good friendship with him that he genuinely wants to invite him to his wedding. That’s quite a statement.Your mother is reacting from a place of pain. She saw your hurt as you navigated through the pain of your divorce. Because she has not forgiven the pain he caused you, she is holding a grudge in your name.Good ex-...

Bill Belichick’s call suspending play among Matthew Slater’s ‘proudest moments’ with Patriots

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

Patriots head coach Bill Belichick displayed his leadership after rookie cornerback Isaiah Bolden was carted off the field on a back board by meeting with Packers head coach Matt LaFleur and agreeing to suspend play of Saturday night’s preseason game.Special teams captain Matthew Slater called it one of his “proudest moments” of playing under Belichick since 2008.“I really appreciate what Coach Belichick did tonight,” Slater said. “He took the initiative on (suspending play). This is not the AFC Championship. We’re not playing for records. It’s preseason Game 2. When you have an injury like that, it affects a lot of guys in a lot of different ways. Clearly our team was shaken by what happened. And I think Coach made the right decision. That was tremendous leadership by him.“That was one of the proudest moments I’ve had as a guy who’s played for him for now 16 years to see wha the did. There was no hesitation. I appreciate Coach LaFleur, as well, for standing with him on that. ...

Senior lab’s breathing is noisy & raspy

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

Dear Dr. John,My Labrador Retriever just turned 14 and has been healthy for the most part, but he takes a thyroid supplement. He recently developed what sounded like a respiratory cough with some lethargy. I took him to an emergency facility that suggested he had kennel cough, and they gave me some cough medication. With no improvement, I brought him to a local veterinarian, and they ran all kinds of tests including x-rays and a tracheal wash. What they found was some kind of bacteria as well as a weak larynx.What can be done for this? They gave me some medications but not much has changed. They called it larpar and discussed possible therapeutic options also noting that not much usually works. What could have caused this and is it painful for him? It sounds like he struggles when he’s breathing a good deal of the time. S.D.Dear S.D.,Larpar is a shortened term for laryngeal paralysis. Male dogs seem to have this more than females. This is caused by a neuromuscular disease that is of...

Dear Abby: Husband burned by gaslighting wife

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

Dear Abby: My wife constantly gaslights me. We have four children (ages 1, 3, 4 and 6), and we both work full-time. However, I pull 90% of the weight at home. I do the majority of household chores and much of the parenting. She’s an awesome mom and owns the morning routine and the majority of the care for our 1-year-old, but other than that, I do everything. She’s an elementary school teacher and she goes to bed at 7:30 each night after the kids go down. When I ask her why, she says it’s because she has to serve others at work.When she gets home, she complains endlessly about her job and makes me feel guilty, as though I force her to have one. When we moved to our current home, we agreed she needed to teach so our kids could go to school in the district. She admits she knows my desire is simply to spend more time with her. We have had a babysitter only four times in six years. Please give me some advice. — Dissatisfied in AlabamaDear Dissatisfied: You and you...

Hilary is hours away from making landfall in San Diego. Here's what to expect

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- With less than 24 hours before Hurricane Hilary makes landfall in California, here's the current impact for San Diego County based on the storm's projected trajectory.At 8:30 p.m. Saturday, the National Hurricane Center determined that Hilary is a Category 1 storm. Meteorologists say it will still likely move over southern California -- and San Diego -- as a tropical storm early Sunday into Monday.According to state and local officials, flooding will be the highest threat to residents when the storm hits, due to excessive rainfall stretching from the coast to the deserts. State of emergency declared by CA governor as Hurricane Hilary approaches Currently, all of Southern California is under a Tropical Storm Warning, given the likely development of tropical storm-force winds. The entire region is also under a Flood Watch through Monday. San Diego officials are urging residents to avoid all unnecessary travel and shelter-in-place. As of 9 p.m. Saturday, Hurricane Hilar...

Guatemalans head to the polls, hoping their new leader will bring real change

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

GUATEMALA CITY (AP) — After a tumultuous campaign, Guatemalans head to the polls on Sunday to elect a new president, hoping that the country’s next leader will provide relief from rising prices and get a handle on crime and corruption.The two candidates offer starkly different paths forward. Former first lady Sandra Torres became an ally of outgoing, deeply unpopular President Alejandro Giammattei in her third bid for the presidency. Her opponent, Bernardo Arévalo, with the progressive Seed Movement, rode a wave of popular resentment toward politics to his surprise spot in the runoff.Central America’s most populous country and the region’s largest economy continues to struggle with widespread poverty and violence that have driven hundreds of thousands of Guatemalans to emigrate in recent years.The first round of voting on June 25 went relatively smoothly until results showed Arévalo had landed an unexpected spot in the runoff. The fact that the preliminary results were dragged into ...

Are forced-reset triggers illegal machine guns? ATF and gun rights advocates at odds in court fights

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

The internet videos are alarming to some, thrilling to others: Gun enthusiasts spraying bullets from AR-15-style rifles equipped with an after-market trigger allowing them to shoot seemingly as fast as fully automatic weapons.The forced-reset triggers so concerned the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives that it ordered the company making them to halt sales only months after they began in 2020, declaring the devices illegal machine guns.Rare Breed Triggers, founded in Florida and now based in Fargo, North Dakota, said the ATF was wrong and kept selling its FRT-15 triggers, setting the stage for a legal battle now in federal courts in New York and Texas.The triggers are the latest rapid-fire gun accessories to draw scrutiny from government officials worried about mass shootings and police officer safety, joining bump stocks, which were banned by the Trump administration after the 2017 mass shooting in Las Vegas that killed 60 people, and cheap parts called auto...

Lotto 649 winning numbers for Saturday, Aug. 19, 2023

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

TORONTO — The winning numbers in Saturday’s Lotto 649 draw for an estimated $5 million: 22, 23, 25, 35, 36 & 41.Bonus: 21The winning number for the guaranteed $1 million: 52109582-01In the event of any discrepancy between this list and the official winning numbers, the latter shall prevail. The Canadian Press

Maui water is unsafe even with filters, one of the lessons learned from fires in California

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

The language is stark: People in torched areas of Maui should not try to filter their own drinking water because there is no “way to make it safe,” Maui County posted on its Instagram account this week.The message reached Anne Rillero and her husband Arnie in Kula, who were eating yet another meal of frozen pizza. The couple feels incredibly lucky they and their home survived the fires that raced across Maui in recent days, wiping most of Lahaina off the map. The number of confirmed fatalities was raised on Friday to 114 people.When a neighborhood organization alerted them not to drink their water and to air out the house even if they run the tap, the couple decided to eat off paper plates to avoid exposure. No washing dishes.“It’s alarming that it may be in the water system for awhile,” said Rillero, a retired conservation communication specialist who has lived on the island for 22 years.Brita filters, devices connected to refrigerators or sinks and even robust, whole-home sy...

Ecuadorians choosing a new president amid increasing violence that may scare away voters

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 20:05:40 GMT

GUAYAQUIL, Ecuador (AP) — Ecuador is holding a special election Sunday to pick a new president, with police and soldiers on guard against unprecedented violence, including the assassination of a candidate this month. Front-runners include an ally of exiled former President Rafael Correa and a millionaire with a security background promising to be tough on crime.Authorities have deployed more than 100,000 police and soldiers to protect the vote against more violence. Some Ecuadorians still said they would not even leave home for the election, even though skipping the trip to the polls could result in a fine.“I don’t think the election will change anything,” said pharmacist Leidy Aguirre, 28, who has gradually stopped going out with friends over the past three years, out of fear of being robbed. “Not even politicians are safe.”Candidate Fernando Villavicencio was assassinated Aug. 9 as he left a campaign rally in Quito, the capital of the once calm South American country. The killing ...